In today’s society, how can we engage openly in dialogues about ‘race’ and/or ‘racism?
I grew up in Avon Lake, Oh a west side suburb of Cleveland, Oh that has a population of roughly 19,000 people of those people a handful are minorities. Growing up in this environment I often heard words that I now understand are illogical and represent stupidity on the part of people who unfortunately do not know better. As I began to look at universities to attend for college I made a trip to Fordham University in the Bronx. I quickly learned that this environment was completely different than anything that I had ever experienced. As a result I was immediately drawn toward the Bronx and ultimately decided to attend Fordham University.
Now I have returned to Ohio and live in Bowling Green, Oh and work with the football team and as a result of my experiences in the Bronx I am much more equipped to work with players of all races. Further, I live with two African Americans a thought at one point in my life I would have not imagined. I experience race on a daily basis though despite my growth in handling matters of race certain ideas and topics are still not comfortable areas of discussion.
Why? I am not completely certain though there seems to exist a certain understanding among not only myself but those I interact with that certain areas of race do not belong in casual conversation. These areas are a byproduct of ideologies that have been established throughout history and despite how comfortable I and or my roommates or players get with one another will not be talked about. Therefore, what I am trying to say is that although race dialogues have become more opened for me personally, there still exists a certain barrier. Do I think this barrier will ever be completely removed? No, though with each day the ability to discuss all areas of race increases.